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Hey Stunnas,
It is very rare that I start a thread on any topic. But, today I'm calling all couples and relationship experts out there. I need your advice/input. Here's the question...
Being that we are supposed to be a family oriented club right, in your opinion is it ok for a Stunna to greet you with a hug as we do or hold a conversation with you, and not greet your spouse/mate (who is also a Stunna) while they are standing right there with you?
Here's a scenario...
Let's say it's about 4-5 Stunnas socializing together and another Stunna walks up and greets everyone in the circle except for your spouse/mate, when it's obvious everyone in the circle is engaged in the same conversation, and your spouse is a fellow Stunna. I'm not talking about this happening once or twice, I'm talking about someone that makes a habit of doing this.
This is not to say you will like everyone's significant other. You probably won't. And you may even have a genuine gripe with the person, BUT still, is disrespecting that person acceptable club etiquette?
My take (and let me say this again) MY TAKE on this is, no one, I don't care who you are should feel comfortable doing this. It is blatantly disrespectful. If you can't acknowledge a person's better half while he/she is standing right there with them, then don't acknowledge either of them. I would never disrespect anyone's better half. Out of sheer courteousy, I would greet both and keep it moving.
I'm curious to know what yall think.
It is very rare that I start a thread on any topic. But, today I'm calling all couples and relationship experts out there. I need your advice/input. Here's the question...
Being that we are supposed to be a family oriented club right, in your opinion is it ok for a Stunna to greet you with a hug as we do or hold a conversation with you, and not greet your spouse/mate (who is also a Stunna) while they are standing right there with you?
Here's a scenario...
Let's say it's about 4-5 Stunnas socializing together and another Stunna walks up and greets everyone in the circle except for your spouse/mate, when it's obvious everyone in the circle is engaged in the same conversation, and your spouse is a fellow Stunna. I'm not talking about this happening once or twice, I'm talking about someone that makes a habit of doing this.
This is not to say you will like everyone's significant other. You probably won't. And you may even have a genuine gripe with the person, BUT still, is disrespecting that person acceptable club etiquette?
My take (and let me say this again) MY TAKE on this is, no one, I don't care who you are should feel comfortable doing this. It is blatantly disrespectful. If you can't acknowledge a person's better half while he/she is standing right there with them, then don't acknowledge either of them. I would never disrespect anyone's better half. Out of sheer courteousy, I would greet both and keep it moving.
I'm curious to know what yall think.
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Permalink Reply by RAMPAGE on -
I really think that's disrespectful and I'm so glad that you brought this to others attention. I think it's childish, and they say we suppose to be grown but what a joke.LOL
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Permalink Reply by N_FINI_T on -
Ok, my take is that it IS disrespectful. The saying I was always bought up with is that everyone deserves the time of day......it is not going to kill you to speak whether you want to hold a convo with a person or not (male/female). Further, it is not GODLY to act in such a manner and those that act like this must know that they too will be judged! I have had some to not acknowledge me, but I am different and I still speak because I won't allow anyone to take me out of who I am.
It is unfortunate that we have adults that act as children, but it is reality. I would just say to tell the spouses (men/women) to not give in to the negativity of those who feel they are above the sense of speech. Those that feel they are above that sense must know that under GOD they can use it or lose it! (He can take it from you). Be careful of what you set out to do.
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